叔叔教我们要学会反思，真正反思自己的内心就是要站在第三者的角度真正的去审视自己的行为、做事情的目的、出发点，这样才能真正的找出自己的问题和错误。并且自己要有这种靠自己反思的能力，这是我最需要提高的地方。如果不能做到反思，就永远不能真正认识到自己的错误。在我们大家读完一些文章和故事，大家互相谈感受的时候，虽然有时候自己也说的很多，但自己还是没有用这些道理去看自己。总是在不停的讲这些道理本身，而没有用心去思考自己的问题，所以还会犯很多错误。应该永远记住一点，糊弄别人就是糊弄自己。
Uncle taught us how to do the introspection. To exam our own mindset, we need to stand on the third-person point of view first, and check our mind, behaviour, and purpose of action, then we can find our own mistakes and weaknesses. We have to have the ability of doing this without reminding by others. That’s the main thing I need to improve, if I don’t do so, I will never realize my own mistakes. When we read some related articles and stories, we will share our feelings and reflections. Though sometimes I talk a lot, I didn’t rule myself by those standards. I usually repeat talking about the standard itself without thinking about it, which caused me making mistakes. We should remember, lying to others is lying to yourself.