常常在做事情的时候，出发点就是在为己或者是自私，自负的人一般都非常的自大，不会去听别人的意见，但是善良的人却截然相反。最近在和同学们相处的时候，被小山影响的很大。有的时候自己在看问题的时候，只会去站在自己的立场上去评判事情，这也导致了自己在做事情的时候总是出错，或者是另别人感觉到不舒服。而小山不一样，他常常看待问题的时候出发点总是站在别人的立场上和按照客观事实去评判事情。所以小山处理事情的时候出错率很小，并且会让别人感觉良好。两种不同的出发点，会让事情产生不同的结果。现在在大家的影响下，自己去做事情的时候虽然出错率还是很高，但是相比较以前来说已经提高了一些。狂妄自大到最后只会害了自己，谦虚善良的人才是真正帮助自己。害人者害己，爱人者爱己。
Often when doing things, the starting point is selfishness or selfishness. Conceited people are generally very arrogant and don't listen to other people's opinions, but kind people are the exact opposite. Recently, when I got along with my classmates, I was greatly influenced by Xiaoshan. Sometimes when I look at a problem, I only judge things from my own standpoint, which also causes me to always make mistakes when doing things, or make others feel uncomfortable. But Xiaoshan is different. When he often looks at problems, he always starts from the standpoint of others and judges things according to objective facts. So when Xiaoshan handles things, the error rate is very small, and it makes others feel good. Two different starting points will lead to different results. Now under the influence of everyone, although the error rate is still high when doing things by myself, it has increased compared to before. Arrogance will only harm oneself in the end, and only those who are humble and kind can really help themselves. Those who harm others harm themselves, those who love others love themselves