Selfishness為私的出發點

為私的出發點

把身邊的每一件事情都做好，這可能是每個人都希望的吧。最近叔叔告訴我們一個道理，做事情的出發點要明確，要站在對方的角度去思考，要以高效的完成為目的。由於原生態的生長環境，我們大多數人在處理事情的時候都會首先站在自己的利益角度去思考，這樣就導致了不能夠高效，合理的完成分内工作。所以叔叔告訴我們，轉變自己的思維方式，不把“我”放在第一位，事情就能夠非常簡單的做好。但是想要完全做到还要不断按照叔叔说的去做，因爲現在的人在潛意識中都是把自己的利益放在第一位，還包括顯示，妒忌等很多心理問題，最終就會導致做事出錯，效率慢。

所以歸根結底，只要人不自私，能夠站在對方立場思考問題，處理事情，那麽你就能夠做好所有的事情，同時如果能夠以同理心，善良的心態去對待人事物，那麽你周圍的一切乃至整個人生都会感受到一片美好。

starting point for personal

Doing everything around you well is probably what everyone wants. Recently, my uncle told us a truth, the starting point of doing things should be clear, we should think from the perspective of the other party, and we should aim at efficient completion. Due to the original ecological growth environment, most of us will first think from the perspective of our own interests when dealing with things, which leads to the inability to efficiently and reasonably complete the assigned work. So my uncle told us that doing things well is very simple, just change your way of thinking. But it is rarely possible, because people nowadays put their own interests first in the subconscious, and also include many psychological problems such as display, jealousy, etc., which will eventually lead to mistakes in doing things and slow efficiency.

So in the final analysis, as long as people are not selfish and can think about problems and deal with things from the other side’s standpoint, then you can do everything well. At the same time, if you can treat people and things with empathy and kindness, then everything around you, even The whole life will be beautiful.

心中“懶”的成分

最近反思自己的内心，想到了一個對自己來説既熟悉有頭疼的習慣：懶惰。而這個困擾了自己很長時間的問題仍然在心中遲遲未完全改正。前段時間自己内心中有一個疑問：爲什麽自己不能夠在各個方面都能夠達到一個非常好的狀態呢？老是處在一種是好是壞的狀態裏。當然這其中有很多心理方面的原因，但是最主要的，我認爲是懶惰，由於自己的懶惰從而沒有百分之百的做到叔叔的要求。在很多事情上潛意識中總是想要鑽空子，偷懶，從而達到當下自己舒服的狀態。

其實任何一個人只要能夠完全接受叔叔的教育，能夠百分百的做到叔叔的要求，那麽就能夠達到一個非常好的狀態。就像叔叔說的，很多道理就擺在那裏，但是很少人能夠意識到它的重要性，也做不到。當然在現今的社會，人們很難不隨波逐流，思維方式跟隨大衆，社會的脚步，而整個社會則處於世風日下，唯利是圖的狀態。所以很難有人能夠在這樣的狀態下逆流而上，脫穎而出。

但我們不同，因爲叔叔這裏的環境能夠真正的讓我們改變原來的思維，這也是我們幸運的地方。同時也是自己有些慚愧的地方，就像開頭説的，自己很多時候都會有懶惰的心理，所以無論是思想上，還是學業特長上，明明能夠做的很好，但仍然是在以很緩慢的速度往前走。

叔叔説過：人一生就敗在一個“懶”字上。所以我一定要警惕這一不好的習慣。當然比之以前的自己來説，經過叔叔的教育，在很多事情上都擁有非常大的進步，也擁有了一些令人羡慕的思維方式和特長，這是很多同齡人所不具備的。由於原生態的生活環境導致自己内心深處依然擁有“懶惰”，“妒忌”，“顯示”等心理問題，但我相信隨著在叔叔這裏的時間越長，這些問題都會逐漸的改正。

The "lazy" ingredient

Reflecting on my heart recently, I thought of a habit that is familiar to me and has a headache: laziness. And this problem that has troubled me for a long time is still in my heart and has not been completely corrected. Some time ago, I had a question in my heart: Why can't I achieve a very good state in all aspects? Always in a state of being good or bad. Of course, there are many psychological reasons for this, but the most important one is laziness. Because of my own laziness, I can't fulfill my uncle's requirements 100%. In many things subconsciously, I always want to take advantage of loopholes and be lazy, so as to achieve a comfortable state at the moment.

In fact, as long as anyone can fully accept his uncle's education and fulfill his uncle's requirements 100%, then he can achieve a very good state. As my uncle said, many truths are there, but few people can realize its importance and can't do it. Of course, in today's society, it is difficult for people not to follow the trend, and the way of thinking follows the footsteps of the public and society, while the whole society is in a state of mercenary and profit-seeking. So it is difficult for someone to go upstream in such a state and stand out.

But we are different, because uncle's environment can really make us change our original thinking, which is also our lucky place. At the same time, it is also a place where I feel a little ashamed. As I said at the beginning, I often have a lazy mentality, so whether it is ideological or academic expertise, I can obviously do well, but still at a very slow speed. Move forward.

Uncle once said: A person loses in the word "lazy" in his life. So I must be wary of this bad habit. Of course, compared to the previous self, through the education of my uncle, I have made great progress in many things, and also have some enviable ways of thinking and specialties, which are not possessed by many of my peers. Due to the original living environment, I still have psychological problems such as "laziness", "jealousy", and "display" deep in my heart, but I believe that these problems will gradually be corrected as I stay here longer.