starting point for personal
Doing everything around you well is probably what everyone wants. Recently, my uncle told us a truth, the starting point of doing things should be clear, we should think from the perspective of the other party, and we should aim at efficient completion. Due to the original ecological growth environment, most of us will first think from the perspective of our own interests when dealing with things, which leads to the inability to efficiently and reasonably complete the assigned work. So my uncle told us that doing things well is very simple, just change your way of thinking. But it is rarely possible, because people nowadays put their own interests first in the subconscious, and also include many psychological problems such as display, jealousy, etc., which will eventually lead to mistakes in doing things and slow efficiency.
So in the final analysis, as long as people are not selfish and can think about problems and deal with things from the other side’s standpoint, then you can do everything well. At the same time, if you can treat people and things with empathy and kindness, then everything around you, even The whole life will be beautiful.
The "lazy" ingredient
Reflecting on my heart recently, I thought of a habit that is familiar to me and has a headache: laziness. And this problem that has troubled me for a long time is still in my heart and has not been completely corrected. Some time ago, I had a question in my heart: Why can't I achieve a very good state in all aspects? Always in a state of being good or bad. Of course, there are many psychological reasons for this, but the most important one is laziness. Because of my own laziness, I can't fulfill my uncle's requirements 100%. In many things subconsciously, I always want to take advantage of loopholes and be lazy, so as to achieve a comfortable state at the moment.
In fact, as long as anyone can fully accept his uncle's education and fulfill his uncle's requirements 100%, then he can achieve a very good state. As my uncle said, many truths are there, but few people can realize its importance and can't do it. Of course, in today's society, it is difficult for people not to follow the trend, and the way of thinking follows the footsteps of the public and society, while the whole society is in a state of mercenary and profit-seeking. So it is difficult for someone to go upstream in such a state and stand out.
But we are different, because uncle's environment can really make us change our original thinking, which is also our lucky place. At the same time, it is also a place where I feel a little ashamed. As I said at the beginning, I often have a lazy mentality, so whether it is ideological or academic expertise, I can obviously do well, but still at a very slow speed. Move forward.
Uncle once said: A person loses in the word "lazy" in his life. So I must be wary of this bad habit. Of course, compared to the previous self, through the education of my uncle, I have made great progress in many things, and also have some enviable ways of thinking and specialties, which are not possessed by many of my peers. Due to the original living environment, I still have psychological problems such as "laziness", "jealousy", and "display" deep in my heart, but I believe that these problems will gradually be corrected as I stay here longer.