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Needs or wants? 是想要,还是真需要?

几乎所有人都会努力地去争取自己想要的东西,但普通人和成功人士的区别是什么呢?

成功人士总是满足自己需要的。普通人之所不能成功,是因为他们不知道自己真正需要的是什么,于是就放任自己,走上错误的道路。

哪我们如何知道什么是真正需要的呢?其实很简单,只需要问自己一个问题,这是自己想要的,还是现在必须的。

想要是欲望,真正需要的则是必须具备的。欲望充满诱惑,只会分散你的注意力,我们追逐欲望,到头来常常发现自己并不能从中获得满足。即使最后我们得到了自己想要的东西,也往往无法控制心中产生更多的欲求。就像我过去玩手机,虽然玩的时候很开心,但当结束之后我感到的却是空虚。为了填补空虚就会花更多时间玩,但最后我得到却是更多的空虚。真正的需要则非常简单,它可以像养分一样给我们带来益处。举个例子,如果我们想要提高自己做事或学习的效率,那就需要先完成重要的事情,就好像面包和果酱,果酱是我们想要的,但面包则是我们需要的,果酱虽然很好吃,但不能填饱我们的肚子,给我们足够的营养。只有在得到真正需要的东西之后,我们才有能力去追求自己想要的东西,两者的顺序是绝不能颠倒的。


Almost everyone will work hard to get what they want, but what is the difference between ordinary people and successful people?

Successful people always meet their needs. Ordinary people fail to succeed because they don't know what they really need, so they let themselves go and go the wrong way.

How do we know what is really needed? It's actually very simple, just ask yourself a question, is this what you want or what you need now.

Wanting is a desire, and a real need is a must-have. Desires are tempting and only distract you, and we chase them and often end up finding that we don't get the satisfaction from them. Even if we finally get what we want, we often cannot control the desire for more in our hearts. Just like when I used to play with my phone, although it was fun to play, when it was over I felt empty. It takes more time to play to fill the void, but I end up with more voids. The real need is very simple, it can benefit us like nutrients. For example, if we want to improve our efficiency in doing things or learning, we need to complete important things first, just like bread and jam, jam is what we want, but bread is what we need, jam is good though Eating, but not filling our stomachs and giving us enough nutrition. Only after we get what we really need can we have the ability to pursue what we want, and the order of the two must never be reversed.

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