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圣诞假期,再次拥有了温习原来所学的时间。同时叔叔也让我开始系统的学习开车。

上周三第一次开车上路,对自己来说是个值得纪念的日子。开车教练很热心,用中英双语在一旁指导。一个小时的练车时间学到了很多开车技巧。但在开车的途中,由于一些失误的操作,导致一些车对自己按了喇叭。回去后反思这次练车,除了需要勤加练习外,总觉得还欠缺一种东西,内心中比较模糊,但总感觉只要抓住关键点,以后开车绝对会少犯很多错误。

后来叔叔带我开车,给我们讲了很多关于开车的道理。内心豁然开朗,几天前内心模糊感觉欠缺的东西终于有了答案。原来以前很早叔叔就告诉过我们,在开车的时候需要注意的事情。中心思想就是为他人着想,礼让他人,并且防患于未然。

叔叔说,我们很幸运,因为在加拿大学车,避免了沾染一些不良开车习惯的机会。在中国,开车教练总是会告诉你如何开,在有车的时候要怎么做,往往站在自己的角度去想问题:两车交汇,不往路边开,而是往左边挤。反正撞上了有别人的责任,自己往路边开剐蹭了自己要负全责。诸如此类开车习惯,使得中国人出车祸频繁,并且随着这样的习惯,人与人之间也没有了关心,为的只是自己能够方便,得到利益。

其实在日常生活中,无论是开车,还是做事,任何时候只要能够站在对方的角度上思考,事情总会得到一个好的解决方案。在今后开车时,我一定要按照叔叔交给我们的道理去做,去想。因为叔叔教授我们的这些道理,让我们少走弯路,生活幸福。


观雪论思

多倫多下雪了,整整一周,大雪時下時停,地上的積雪覆蓋了一層又一層。六出飞花入户时,坐看青竹变琼枝。枯枝,樓房,大地,萬物均被覆上一層白衣。

清晨,完成鍛煉吃完早飯,坐在朝東的窗邊小桌上,看書寫字,欣賞雪景,是一件非常愜意的事。日出時,金光灑落在白雪上,更是顯露出一份異常美麗而神聖的景色。燈下,恍惚間,不知何時已在紙上寫出“观雪论思”四字,回想起叔叔前几日的教导。

在叔叔这里,我们懂得了很多的道理。可在平时生活中,大多时间自己还是选择了为私与安逸。有些不好的想法隐藏在思想深处,不想去直面,改正。有的时候意识到有些事情做的时候是不对的,如在帮助别人的时候、以及合作干什么的时候,内心深处的出发点不在于帮助别人、或把这件事情做好,内心深处更多的是一种显示,能不够的心理。这是一种可怕的思维状态,叔叔告诉过我们,内心阴暗的人最终都不会有好的结果。而一旦放纵了自己这段时间的思维方式,那么久之也会形成阴暗的心理。

也许表面上看乐于助人、知足善良,其实内心中的想法却截然相反。人一旦形成了这样的思想和形象,从人的层面上讲,这个人里外不一、小人心理,使他不可能成为他人的心腹,知心。从神佛的层面上看,一切不好的思想将会在未来遭到应有的惩罚,而那些表面上还对神佛有信仰的人们,最终也会因为这种阴暗心理达不到最终的目标。

所以当遇到矛盾,事事不顺时,不妨反省一下自身,也许会找到问题的根源所在。更也许,会发现改变了自己,身边的一切都会走向正轨,愈发美好。


drive

During the Christmas holiday, I once again have the time to review what I have learned. At the same time, my uncle also let me start to learn to drive systematically.

Driving on the road for the first time last Wednesday was a memorable day for myself. The driving coach is very enthusiastic and guides in both Chinese and English. I learned a lot of driving skills in one hour of driving time. But on the way to drive, due to some erroneous operations, some cars honked themselves. After I went back, I reflected on this driving practice. Apart from the need to practice more, I always felt that there was still something missing. I was vague in my heart, but I always felt that as long as I grasped the key points, I would definitely make a lot of mistakes in driving in the future.

Later, my uncle took me to drive and told us a lot about driving. My heart suddenly became clear, and I finally had the answer to what I felt vague and lacking in my heart a few days ago. It turns out that my uncle told us a long time ago what we need to pay attention to when driving. The central idea is to consider others, be courteous to others, and prevent problems before they happen.

Uncle said, we are very lucky, because we learned to drive in Canada and avoided the chance of getting some bad driving habits. In China, the driving instructor will always tell you how to drive, what to do when you have a car, and often think about the problem from your own perspective: when two cars meet, don't drive to the side of the road, but squeeze to the left. Anyway, it was someone else's responsibility to bump into it, and I should take full responsibility for driving and scratching on the side of the road. Such driving habits make Chinese people have frequent car accidents, and with such habits, people no longer care about each other, only for their own convenience and benefits.

In fact, in daily life, whether it is driving or doing things, as long as you can think from the perspective of the other party at any time, things will always get a good solution. When driving in the future, I must act and think according to the principles my uncle gave us. Because the uncle taught us these principles, let us avoid detours and live a happy life.


Viewing Snow and Thinking

It's snowing in Toronto. For a whole week, it snows intermittently, and the ground is covered with layers of snow. When the flying flowers come out of six and enter the house, sit and watch the green bamboos change into qiongzhi. Dead branches, buildings, the earth, everything is covered with a layer of white clothes.

In the morning, after exercising and having breakfast, sitting on the small table by the window facing east, reading and writing, and admiring the snow scenery is a very pleasant thing. At sunrise, the golden light falls on the white snow, revealing an exceptionally beautiful and sacred scene. Under the lamp, in a trance, I don't know when I wrote the four words "Guanxue Lunsi" on the paper, recalling my uncle's teachings a few days ago.

Here at Uncle, we learned a lot of truths. But in daily life, most of the time I still choose to be selfish and comfortable. Some bad thoughts are hidden deep in the mind, and I don't want to face them and correct them. Sometimes I realize that some things are wrong, such as when helping others, and when doing something together, the starting point deep in my heart is not to help others or to do this thing well, but more in my heart It is a kind of show, not enough psychology. It's a horrible state of mind, and Uncle told us that no one with a dark heart ends up well in the end. And once I indulge my way of thinking during this period of time, I will form a dark psychology over time.

Maybe on the surface they seem to be helpful, content and kind, but in fact they think the opposite in their hearts. Once a person forms such a thought and image, from the human level, the inconsistency between the inside and the outside, and the villain mentality of this person make it impossible for him to become the confidant and confidant of others. From the perspective of gods and Buddhas, all bad thoughts will be punished in the future, and those who still believe in gods and Buddhas on the surface will not be able to achieve the ultimate goal because of this dark psychology. Target.

So when you encounter conflicts and everything goes wrong, you might as well reflect on yourself, and you may find the root of the problem. More likely, you will find that you have changed yourself, and everything around you will go on the right track and become more beautiful.




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