在最近读的几篇文章中，我意识到自身的一个问题。就是在遇到一些问题的时候习惯性的抱怨别人。学到的道理都用到别人身上，抱怨别人为什么不按照这些道理做事，却一点也不想想自己的问题。其实就是别人的行为不符合自己了。明白道理是为了约束自己的行为，让自己变成更好的人的。这种状态持续了相当长的一段时间，追究其根本原因就是我缺少了一种自我反省的能力。这种能力的缺失导致我一直无法真正意识到自己的问题，使抱怨成为了常态。我真的很羡慕姐姐她们拥有这种自省能力，所以我也要努力养成自我反省的习惯。
In the last few articles I read, I realized a problem with myself. It is the habit of complaining about others when encountering some problems. The principles learned are applied to others, and they complain about why others do not act according to these principles, but do not think about their own problems at all. In fact, other people's behavior is not in line with their own. To understand the truth is to restrain your behavior and make yourself a better person. This state lasted for a long time, and the root cause was that I lacked a self-reflection ability. This lack of ability has kept me from really being aware of my problems, making complaining the norm. I really envy my sisters for having this kind of self-reflection ability, so I will also work hard to develop the habit of self-reflection.