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最近读文章时,读到了有关中国古人遵守礼仪的传统故事,以及虎哥在讲感受时谈到的:我们现在的人要是放到古代那个社会,吃一顿饭可能都会犯十几个错误。听到这些,让我回想起了小时候爷爷奶奶给教过的一些传统礼仪,例如什么是正常的行走坐卧,如何尊老爱幼。但是即使了解了一些日常做人的原则,由于来自社会的侵蚀,和自己的懈怠,在以前那样一个环境下,逐渐长大,终究还是会选择抛弃,无视这些原则。如果一直以来叔叔这里之前的那种状态继续成长下去,我觉得我终将成为一个只会满口大道理,而又不能真正做到的人,一个只会能不够的人。叔叔这里没有中国学校的那些花架子,在中国,即使你学了再多,也难以学以致用。但是叔叔在这里,我们真正学会了尊敬长辈,孝顺父母,懂得感恩,学会了说谢谢,学会了说你好,再见。在这里,我们学到了真正做人的道理,在这里,不同于外面的花架子,我们真正感受到了来自内心的幸福感。虽然对成为一个真正的好人,君子,还有很长的一段路需要去摸索,提高,但是我们已经有了能够提高的机会,而这个机会,来自于叔叔对我们的教导。


When I was reading an article recently, I read the traditional stories about the ancient Chinese people's observance of etiquette, and what Brother Hu said when he was talking about his feelings: If we are in the ancient society, we may make more than a dozen mistakes during a meal. Hearing this reminded me of some traditional etiquette taught by my grandparents when I was a child, such as what is normal walking, sitting and lying down, and how to respect the old and love the young. But even if I understand some principles of daily life, I will eventually choose to abandon these principles when I grow up in the same environment as before. Erosion from the society, slack from myself, if the state before my uncle here continues to grow, I think I will eventually become a person who can only talk about big things, but can't really do it. Not enough people. Uncle here doesn't have the bells and whistles of Chinese schools. In China, no matter how much you learn, it is difficult to apply what you have learned. But uncle is here, we have learned to respect our elders, be filial to our parents, be grateful, learn to say thank you, learn to say hello and goodbye. Here, we learned the truth of being a true human being, and here, different from the outside, we truly feel the happiness from the heart. Although there is still a long way to be explored and improved to become a truly good person, a gentleman, but we already have the opportunity to improve, and this opportunity comes from the uncle's teaching to us.


上周子滕参加了一场由钢琴老师举办的学生钢琴演奏会,这是子滕同学在来到叔叔这里之后的第一次登台演出。在表演中,子滕展示出了十分优异的演奏水准。手指在琴键上飞快的滑动,演奏出一个个美妙的音符。瞧着在舞台上演奏的身影,不禁让大家想起了子滕在叔叔这里的变化。刚开始来到叔叔这里的子滕,瘦弱,身体有问题,心理有问题,脸色也是铁青的。而现在,随着在叔叔这里不断的长大,子滕的身体状况已将得到了非常大的改善,再也不是从前那个具有厌食症的小子了。虽然子滕在叔叔这里还有一些问题需要解决,但我相信,随着时间的推移,子滕无论是心理还是身体都会朝着更好的方向发展,最终在叔叔这里完成自己的音乐梦想,成为一个真正幸福的人。


Last week Tom participated in a student piano concert held by the piano teacher. This was Tom's first stage performance after coming to his uncle. In the performance, Tom showed a very good level of playing. The fingers slide quickly on the keys, playing a wonderful note. Looking at the figure playing on the stage, everyone can't help but think of Tom's changes in his uncle. Tom, who first came to his uncle's place, was thin, with physical and psychological problems, and his complexion was ashen. And now, with the continuous growth of his uncle, Tom's physical condition has been greatly improved, and he is no longer the boy with anorexia. Now Tom still has some problems to be solved with his uncle, but I believe that with the passage of time, Tom will develop in a better direction both mentally and physically, and finally complete his music dream with his uncle and become a real Happy people.

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