目的

最近叔叔告诉我们做一件事最重要的核心：搞清做事的目的，然后把目的达成。很多时候我们做事都没有搞清目的，直接上手就做，因而导致了很多问题的发生。有的时候是不懂得变通，做事只流于表面；有的时候则是把做事当成显示自己的机会，乃至最后为了这个把做事本身给忽略了。

Recently uncle told us that the core of doing things is: get clear about the purpose and get it done. We often begin without this first step, thus cause many problems. Sometimes we do not know how to be flexible and only touch the surface; sometimes we consider the process a chance of showing off, which makes us forget doing things itself.

因为天气变暖的缘故我们终于可以更频繁地外出锻炼了，而周围的邻居们似乎也都是这么想的，于是沉寂的社区又变得热闹起来。绿浪翻滚的草坪上，每天都会有小孩子在互相玩耍，也会有很多大人在散步聊天。他们是那样无忧无虑，快快乐乐，以致在一旁观看的我有时也不禁受到动容了。中国的许多人实在是太忙碌太愁苦了；他们的孩子也是这样，日日在纪律如同监狱的学校里受着苦熬。我们能出国来实在是万幸的事情啊。

Because of the rising of the temperature, we finally could go out frequently, and so do think our neighbors, who make the silent community clamoring again. Everyday, there will be kids playing and adults walking and talking on the grass. They are so careless and so happy that sometimes I will feel touched. Because people in China are so busy & anxious；their children are also like this, bearing and enduring in stressful schools；it is so lucky we can go aboard.