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“人类的烦恼起源于困难本身,但让烦恼得以延续下去的却是抱怨”

前一段时间叔叔提醒了我很多次关于抱怨的问题,我就开始留意自己的一言一行,我发现抱怨真是无处不在,已经形成了习惯,一点小事我都会抱怨,小到帮别人拿个东西都会抱怨为什么是我,或干了一件事之后没有得到别人的夸奖也会抱怨……但其实这样自己也不开心,总想别人不好,自己还越想越委屈。抱怨也许会暂时使内心的压力得到一点缓解,但永远不可能解决根本问题。每天都在抱怨的人是不可能成功的,抱怨就是一种负面的磁场,别人都可以感受得到,没有人会愿意帮助一个总在抱怨的人。


"Human troubles originate from difficulties themselves, but it is complaining that keeps troubles going"

Some time ago, my uncle reminded me many times about complaining, and I began to pay attention to my words and deeds. I found that complaining is everywhere, and it has become a habit. They would complain about why it was me, or if they didn't get praise from others after doing something... But in fact, I was not happy in this way, I always thought that others were bad, and the more I thought about it, the more wronged I became. Complaining may temporarily relieve some inner pressure, but it will never solve the underlying problem. People who complain every day cannot succeed. Complaining is a negative magnetic field that others can feel. No one will be willing to help a person who is always complaining.


上周是复活节假期,叔叔决定带我们烧烤。原本天气晴朗我们就在后院里烧烤,但加拿大的天气变化多端,忽然下起了雨,雨越下越大后来干脆变成了下雪,那鹅毛大雪我们也就在冬天见过几次而已,所以我们连忙转移到了车库,车库的门开着以便让烟出去。我们在车库里面一边烧烤一边赏雪,门口有车挡着再加上火炉的温度,一点都不觉得冷,很是惬意。


Last week was Easter holiday and uncle decided to take us for a BBQ. We used to have a barbecue in the backyard when the weather was sunny, but the weather in Canada is changing, and it suddenly started to rain. We hurriedly moved to the garage with the garage door open to let the smoke out. We were enjoying the snow while grilling in the garage. There was a car blocking the door and the temperature of the stove didn't feel cold at all, which was very comfortable.

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