言传身教

家长们可能都有一个疑问，为什么都是教育孩子，孩子就愿意听丁老师话，而自己说的话孩子就不好好听呢？首先，我先想问家长们一个问题，您是不是经常唠叨孩子，比如：你上课一定要专心听讲；吃饭的时候不准玩手机；先写完作业再玩；不准吃垃圾食品：周末别老睡懒觉：趁着休息赶紧收拾房间，等等一大堆的道理和要求，其实这就是孩子不听的原因。家长们教育孩子没有错，但家长都忘了一件事，忘了自己小时候的样子。喜欢玩，喜欢吃零食，喜欢睡懒觉的，这就是孩子们的天性，哪个人小时候不是这样，另外请家长们想想，你是不是也不喜欢被人唠叨，己所不欲勿施于人，孩子也是一样。

我们愿意听叔叔的话有两个原因，第一，是因为叔叔理解孩子的天性心理，从不要求我们做自己做不到的事。第二，凡事要求我们做到的事，叔叔自己也一定做到。第三，我们犯了错误，叔叔会告诉我们错在哪里而不是一味的指责。

Parents may have a question, why are children willing to listen to Teacher Ding's words when they are educating their children, but the children don't listen well to what they say? First of all, I would like to ask parents a question, do you often nag your children, such as: you must pay attention to the lectures in class; do not play with your mobile phone during meals; finish your homework before playing; do not eat junk food: weekends Don't always sleep in late: take advantage of the rest to tidy up the room quickly, and wait for a lot of reasons and requirements, in fact, this is the reason why the child does not listen. There is nothing wrong with parents educating their children, but parents have forgotten one thing, they have forgotten how they were when they were young. Like to play, like to eat snacks, like to sleep late, this is the nature of children, who is not like this when they were young, and parents, please think about it, do you also like being nagged, do not do to others what you want , children too.

We are willing to listen to uncles for two reasons. First, because uncles understand the nature of children and never ask us to do things that we cannot do ourselves. Second, everything requires us to do, uncle must do it himself. Third, we made mistakes, and uncle would tell us what was wrong instead of just accusing us.

这周六我们进行了一个大扫除，将屋子里的所有地方都清理了一遍，厨房、客厅、地下室、卧室、厕所、甚至是小小的插线板开关。真是不收拾还好一收拾吓一跳，床底下、柜子后面、衣橱里满满的都是灰尘，光是打扫一个屋就用了一个多小时。唉，这就是平时不认真打扫卫生的后果啊！

We did a big cleaning this Saturday and cleaned everything in the house, kitchen, living room, basement, bedroom, toilet, even the little power strip switches. I really didn't clean up, but I was shocked when I cleaned it up. There was dust under the bed, behind the cabinet, and in the closet. It took more than an hour to clean a room. Alas, this is the consequence of not cleaning up carefully at ordinary times!