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改变思维

游湖

绿荫烧烤微风起,海天一色帆徜徉。

水清草绿细沙漫,佳景怡人入桃源。


The shade of the barbecue is breezy,

and the sea and the sky are full of sails.

The water is clear, the grass is green and the sand is diffuse,

and the beautiful scenery is pleasant to enter the Taoyuan.


近来,叔叔跟我们分享了自己的感悟。教育,其实就是改变思维。同样一件事情,正面看待,是天堂;负面看待,便是地狱。然而,昨天发生的一件事,让我对“改变思维”有了更深的认识。

叔叔开车带我们去了安大略湖游玩。水非常清澈,沙滩比之前去过的公园更大,不远处还有一座小山,山上有岩石峭壁,绿树成荫。蓝天白云下,一切都显得那么美丽。湖里还有好多救生员划着小船在不远处保护着游客。我们在水中嬉戏,玩得很开心。但是在快结束的时候,不知不觉游到了水很浅的地方玩了一会儿。

于是,上岸后,叔叔问我们玩得好不好。这时候,我的脑袋已经充满了负面的想法,抱怨水很浅,游不起来。没想到,霏霏的回答充却满了正面的内容,玩得很好,水很清,沙子也很细...列举了很多优点。这一下敲醒了我,这么多好的地方,我怎么就只注意到了那一个差的地方呢?我不禁想起了从前在书里读到的一个例子:桌上放着半杯水,一个人走进来,看到只有半杯水了;另一个人走进来,却看到还有半杯水呢。思维不同,看问题的角度也不同。

在写作的过程中,我发现其实这一个差的地方,错在自己。其实是我们自己选错了地方,从深水区游到了浅滩上的。这样一想,就会发现其实公园很好。

发生的这件事情也让我看到了自己思维的差距,还需要继续努力改正。


Recently, uncle shared his insights with us. Education, in fact, is to change thinking. The same thing, viewed positively, is heaven; viewed negatively, it is hell. However, something happened yesterday that gave me a deeper understanding of "changing my mind".

Uncle drove us to Lake Ontario to play. The water is very clear, the beach is bigger than the park I've been to before, and there's a hill not far away with rocky cliffs and trees. Under the blue sky and white clouds, everything looks so beautiful. There are also many lifeguards rowing boats in the lake to protect tourists not far away. We frolicked in the water and had a great time. But at the end of the game, I unknowingly swam to a shallow place to play for a while.

So, after going ashore, uncle asked us if we were having a good time. At this point, my head was already full of negative thoughts, complaining that the water was too shallow to swim. Unexpectedly, Feifei's answer is full of positive content, playing well, the water is very clear, the sand is very fine...and listed many advantages. This knocked me up, there are so many good places, how can I only notice the bad place? I can't help but think of an example I read in the book: there is half a glass of water on the table, one person walks in and sees only half a glass of water; another person walks in and sees that there is still half a glass of water. . Different thinking and different perspectives.

In the process of writing, I found that this one bad place was actually my fault. In fact, we chose the wrong place ourselves and swam from the deep water to the shallows. If you think about it like this, you will find that the park is actually very good.

This incident also made me see the gap in my thinking, and I still need to continue to work hard to correct it.

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