中庸之道

“中庸”是我们中国传统文化的核心观念，也一直受到古代圣贤们的推崇。但可惜的是由于近百年来社会的堕落和人们观念的扭曲，这一优秀的思想也被人们所误解，尤其是今天，在物欲的作怪下人们将它理解为是墙头草、随意妥协、左右逢源等人的处世原则。其实中庸讲的是一种对做事的“度”的把握，就是”不偏不倚“，意思就是说做事“过”和“不及“都是不对的，“过”是超过了正确的值,“不及”是达不到正确。其实说白一点就是不能走极端，不管我们做什么事都应该讲究适度，不仅是做事，吃东西玩都是一样的，不能因为自己喜欢就没有节制，只学会节制才能正真的到满足和快乐。

"The Golden Mean" is the core concept of our traditional Chinese culture, and it has always been respected by ancient sages. But it is a pity that due to the degeneration of society and the distortion of people's concepts in the past century, this excellent idea has also been misunderstood by people, especially today, under the mischief of materialism, people understand it as a mere folly, compromise at will, and both sides. The principles of life among others. In fact, the mean of the mean is a kind of grasp of the "degree" of doing things, that is, "unbiased", which means that doing things "over" and "less than" are both wrong, and "over" is beyond the correct value, " "Not as good as" is not correct. In fact, to put it bluntly, we can’t go to extremes. No matter what we do, we should pay attention to moderation. Not only do things, but eating and playing are the same. We can’t have no moderation just because we like it. Only by learning moderation can we truly be satisfied and happy.

自从上次反思过后我就开始努力改正自己的问题，到现在已经有两周的时间了，在这期间我明显感觉到自己自制力的提升，做事不再像以前一样总是虎头蛇尾了，遇到困难也能鼓起勇气去解决。谢谢叔在这个过程中一直鼓励我让充满了信心，我相信只要就这样一只坚持下去问题一定会解决的。

Since the last reflection, I have been working hard to correct my problems. It has been two weeks now. During this period, I have clearly felt that my self-control has improved, and my work is no longer as anticlimactic as before. Difficulties can also have the courage to solve them. Thank you, Uncle, for always encouraging me to be full of confidence in this process. I believe that as long as I stick to it like this, the problem will be solved.