在当今社会，人们在面对批评和不同意见时，内心总会不痛快。那种不舒服的感觉，有时甚至只是因为他人说了不符合自己期待的话。有些人总是认为自己的观点是真理，无法容忍他人的质疑。而这种态度也让他们在错误的道路上越走越远，也许等到某一刻突然醒悟，才发现自己已经积重难返。
如果不经常反思，不注意自己的一思一念，我也总会在别人指出我的问题时，心生不满或不悦。这不是因为对方的话没有道理，正是因为有道理，但内心并不愿承认自己的错误。这种抗拒源于虚荣心，不愿面对自己的不足，也不愿让他人看到自己的不足。但这种心态却会严重阻碍我们的成长。
只有在面对批评时，放下虚荣心，不反驳、不抱怨、不逃避，及时反思，才能真正汲取他人的建议。真正做到“闻过则喜”，而不是“文过饰非”。
In today's society, people always feel unhappy when facing criticism and different opinions. Sometimes, the feeling of discomfort is just because others say something that does not meet their expectations. Some people always think that their opinions are the truth and cannot tolerate the doubts of others. And this attitude also makes them go further and further on the wrong path. Maybe when they suddenly wake up at a certain moment, they find that they have accumulated too much and it is difficult to turn back.
If I don't reflect often and pay attention to my thoughts, I will always feel dissatisfied or unhappy when others point out my problems. This is not because the other party's words are unreasonable, but because they make sense, but I am unwilling to admit my mistakes in my heart. This resistance comes from vanity, unwillingness to face my own shortcomings, and unwillingness to let others see my shortcomings. But this mentality will seriously hinder our growth.
Only when we put down our vanity, do not refute, complain, or escape, and reflect in time when facing criticism, can we truly absorb the advice of others. We should truly "be happy to hear criticism" instead of "covering up for our mistakes".
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