最近我在读一本名为《别再为小事抓狂》的书，书中讲了我们应该如何对待错误。
每个人都会犯错。但是很多人都害怕犯错，害怕被批评，害怕错误的后果。因为害怕犯错，我会尽可能避免做我不擅长的事。结果就是不会的始终不会。有的时候我们也会因为一个错误而沮丧、难过很久。这本书则告诉我们要“接纳你的错误”。但是接纳错误并不意味着无条件原谅自己的错误。我们应该从一个一个的错误中总结经验，改正错误，并让自己成为更好的人。叔叔说：“不要太在意，但是不能不努力。”当错误产生时，与其花时间难过、沮丧，还不如总结自己为什么会犯错然后再努力改正错误。如果我们能真正把错误当作我们学习与进步的机会，我们就不会再害怕犯错。甚至在面对错误时我们也会快乐许多。
Recently I was reading a book called "Stop Going Crazy About Little Things" about how we should treat mistakes.
Everyone makes mistakes. But many people are afraid of making mistakes, afraid of being criticized, and afraid of the consequences of mistakes. For fear of making a mistake, I avoid doing things I'm not good at as much as possible. The result is that it will never be. Sometimes we will be frustrated and sad for a long time because of a mistake. This book tells us to "accept your mistakes". But accepting your mistakes doesn't mean unconditionally forgiving yourself for your mistakes. We should learn from our mistakes one by one, correct them, and make ourselves a better person. Uncle said: "Don't pay too much attention, but you have to work hard." When mistakes happen, instead of spending time being sad and frustrated, it is better to summarize why you made mistakes and then work hard to correct them. If we can truly see our mistakes as opportunities for us to learn and improve, we will no longer be afraid to make mistakes. We are much happier even in the face of mistakes.
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