小时候父母和老师总是告诉我们为人要谦逊,我们也不过是懵懵地点点头,似是而非地附和说“好”。但这到底是为什么呢?我们为什么要谦逊呢?却从没有真正理解或思考过它的含义。
谦逊,不是表面上的虚伪或谄媚,而是一种内在的品质和态度。它让我们拥有正确的自我认知和谦卑的心境,使我们能够欣赏他人的优点,尊重他人的意见并愿意倾听他人的声音。谦逊首先让我们明白世界如此广阔、知识如此深奥,没有人可以无所不知无所不能,自己的见识和能力都是很有限的。只有虚心向他人学习、虚心接受别人的建议和批评、不断反思自己的行为和思想时,我们才能不断进步。所以我们真的应该将谦逊作为我们的人生准则,时刻提醒自己要谦虚,将其融入生活中的点点滴滴,这样我们才能成为一个更加优秀、更加善良的人。
When we were young, our parents and teachers always told us to be humble, but we just nodded in a daze, echoing "yes" speciously. But why? Why should we be humble? But never really understood or thought about its meaning.
Humility is not superficial hypocrisy or flattery, but an inner quality and attitude. It allows us to have the correct self-awareness and humility, so that we can appreciate the merits of others, respect the opinions of others and be willing to listen to the voices of others. Humility first allows us to understand that the world is so vast and knowledge so profound, no one can be omniscient and omnipotent, and our own knowledge and abilities are very limited. Only when we humbly learn from others, humbly accept others' suggestions and criticisms, and constantly reflect on our own behavior and thoughts, can we continue to make progress. So we should really take humility as our life criterion, remind ourselves to be humble at all times, and integrate it into every bit of life, so that we can become a better and kinder person.
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