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诚信 Intergrity

“诚信”,是做人的基本准则。这个道理我从小听到大,却总是做不到。

以前在学校总抄作业,被老师发现了,我也一口咬定自己没有抄。即使证据确凿,在老师的质问下我也“宁死不屈”。为什么要撒谎呢?原因无非是害怕错误受到处罚、为了自己的某些利益……可是撒谎带来了什么呢?我会因为谎言而惴惴不安。作业交给老师批改之后,会担心老师发现自己有抄袭迹象。到后来自己独立完成的作业上交后,还会担心老师会不会误以为我抄袭。渐渐的撒谎已经变成为了习惯,有时甚至因为一些很小很小的事“出口成谎”。因为明白自己的行为不对,所以内心愧疚不安,但始终无法改正。

来到叔叔这里,我明白了许多道理。但道理不是听听就完了,更重要的是做到。一开始面对自己犯的一些错误也还是想办法撒谎、掩饰。但是每次叔叔都会纠正我的错误并且给我们讲道理。在不断的犯错、反思、改正错误中,诚信的种子在我的心里慢慢生根发芽,面对错误的第一反应也不再是掩饰。错误是我们成长的阶梯,我们改正错误同时又在错误中汲取经验。不撒谎后带来前所未有的轻松。因为知道自己的内心是光明的,不必再担心真相大白,也不用每天生活在不安与焦虑下。

孔子说过:“人无信不立”。如果一个人不被信任,那是多么可悲的事情啊!今后我要将诚信作为做人的原则,绝对不撒谎、不骗人!


"Integrity" is the basic principle of being a human being. I've heard this truth since I was a child, but I can't always do it.

I used to always copy my homework at school, but the teacher found out, and I insisted that I didn't copy it. Even if the evidence is solid, I would "rather die than surrender" under the teacher's questioning. Why lie? The reason is nothing more than the fear of being punished for mistakes, and for some of my own interests... But what does lying bring? I get terrified by lies. After the homework is handed over to the teacher for correction, I will worry that the teacher will find out that I have plagiarized. Later, after handing in the homework that I completed independently, I still worried that the teacher would mistake me for plagiarism. Gradually lying has become a habit, and sometimes even "letting out a lie" because of some very small things. Because I know that my behavior is wrong, I feel guilty and disturbed, but I can't correct it.

When I came to my uncle, I understood a lot of truths. But the truth is not just listening to it, but more importantly, doing it. In the beginning, facing some of the mistakes I made, I still tried to lie and cover up. But every time my uncle will correct my mistakes and reason with us. In the process of making mistakes, reflecting on, and correcting mistakes, the seeds of honesty slowly took root in my heart, and the first reaction to mistakes is no longer to cover up. Mistakes are the ladder of our growth. We correct our mistakes and learn from them at the same time. It's easier than ever to not lie. Because I know that my heart is bright, I don't have to worry about the truth coming out, and I don't have to live in anxiety and anxiety every day.

Confucius said: "One cannot stand without faith." How sad it is if a person is not trusted! In the future, I will take honesty as the principle of being a human being, and I will never lie or deceive others!

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