人生八九不如意，可是人们发现往往最让人难过的是“眼前苦”。眼前苦为什么是最痛苦的？因为它触手可及，是人当下实实在在正在受的苦，它无法避让，无法缓冲，又苦又难。有些人总是过得愁眉苦脸，并不是因为命运不公，而是他们总是拒绝“眼前苦”，希望“眼前苦”在另一个时间地点会自动消失，结果却适得其反，小苦酿成了大苦，把自己逼到绝路。
很多心理学家和书籍都说过，延迟满足，敢于承担痛苦并解决人生问题，是心智成长成熟的唯一途径。而那些坚持自律的人，面对问题从不回避，对于痛苦也从不拒绝，总是能步履从容地走在人生之路上，他们吞下无数的眼前苦，把这些苦变成了滋养身心的养料，内心日益成熟强壮，生活也逐渐走向自我实现的成功之路。
没错最难吃的是“眼前苦”，但是吃下了，这些苦就会在时间的作用下，变成你精神的力量，让我们在以后的人生道路上能应对各种挑战。
Life is often unsatisfactory, but people often find that the most sad thing is "suffering in front of the eyes". Why is suffering in front of the eyes the most painful? Because it is at your fingertips, it is the suffering that people are really suffering at the moment, it cannot be avoided, it cannot be buffered, and it is painful and difficult. Some people always have a sad face, not because of unfair fate, but because they always reject the "present suffering", hoping that the "present suffering" will disappear automatically in another time and place, but the result is just the opposite, and the small suffering becomes a big suffering , Push yourself to a corner.
Many psychologists and books have said that delaying gratification, daring to bear pain and solving life problems is the only way to grow and mature mentally. Those who insist on self-discipline never avoid problems, never reject pain, and always walk on the road of life calmly. They swallow countless sufferings in front of them and turn them into nourishing things for their bodies and minds. Nutrients, the heart is becoming more and more mature and strong, and life is gradually moving towards the road of self-realization and success.
It's true that the most unpalatable thing is the "current suffering", but after eating, these sufferings will become your spiritual strength under the influence of time, so that we can cope with various challenges in the future on the road of life.
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