真正的宽容

这周我们听了几个关于做人要宽容的故事，听完后我觉得故事说的很对，我以后也要宽容的对待他人，不能和别人斤斤计较。但当我们讲完自己的感受后，叔叔却告诉了我们一个更深层的道理：宽容，是在别人真的做了对不起我们、伤害了我们的事情的情况下要宽容别人，我们现在所遇到的很多事情，只是我们认为别人对我们不好，认为自己受到了伤害，但其实这都只是在按照我们不正确的思维方式在评判别人的所作所为。也就是说，其实别人根本就没有错，错的是我们，我们却还告诉自己要宽容对方。所以我们首先应该建立正确的思维方式，再去想宽容他人的事，否则我们将会在自己错误的思维中越陷越深。

This week we listened to a few stories about being tolerant, and after listening to them, I felt that the stories were right. But when we finished talking about our feelings, uncle told us a deeper truth: Tolerance is to be tolerant of others when they have really done something wrong to us and hurt us. A lot of things are just that we think others are not good to us and that we have been hurt, but in fact this is just judging what others are doing according to our incorrect way of thinking. In other words, in fact, others are not wrong at all, it is us who are wrong, but we still tell ourselves to be tolerant of each other. Therefore, we should first establish a correct way of thinking, and then think about being tolerant of others, otherwise we will sink deeper and deeper into our own wrong thinking.

每年七八月是向日葵花开最茂盛的时候，所以这周五叔叔也带我们去了附近的向日葵花田。这片花田离我们住的地方很近，开车只要七八分钟，尽管如此我们还是迫不及待的早早就准备好了要穿的衣服与道具，准备拍一些好看的照片。在停车场远远望去那片花田并不大，与想象中的不太一样，但当我们走进花田才发现里面原来这么大，一眼望去看不到头！花田中有较宽的大路也有窄窄的小径，向日葵花虽不大但却很密集，看起来就像一片很大的花海，阳光洒在花儿身上，把原本就金灿灿的花瓣照的更加美丽。花田里也有很多供人拍照的道具：瞭望台、秋千、草垛、甚至还有一辆红色的小型收割机。我们边走边拍照，时间过的也很快，当然最后也拍出了很多好看的照片，我们都很开心！

July and August are the most prosperous times for sunflowers to bloom, so this Friday, uncle also took us to the nearby sunflower field. This flower field is very close to where we live, and it only takes seven or eight minutes to drive. Even so, we can't wait to get ready for the clothes and props to wear and take some good-looking photos. Looking at the flower field from the parking lot from a distance is not big, it is not the same as imagined, but when we walked into the flower field, we found that it was so big, and it was impossible to see the end at a glance! There are wide roads and narrow paths in the flower fields. Although the sunflower flowers are not big, they are very dense. It looks like a huge sea of flowers. The sun shines on the flowers, making the golden petals even more beautiful beauty. There are also many props for people to take photos in the flower field: lookout platforms, swings, haystacks, and even a small red harvester. We took pictures as we walked, and the time passed quickly. Of course, we also took a lot of beautiful pictures in the end, and we were very happy!