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生活中那些美好的人和事The beautiful people and things in life

加拿大是一个多元化国家,在这里可以见到很多不同种族不同肤色各式各样的人。其中最令我影响深刻的,是自己遇见过的白人。


回想起两个月前的经历,G2路考的当天,我的监考就是一位非常友善的白人小哥,因为自己的语言并不是特别好,不能够非常流畅的和这位小哥交谈,但是他在清楚我的情况之后,主动放慢了说话的速度,同时以我能听懂的方式对话。在我能完全听懂他说什么的时候,内心是惊讶的,因为我们之前都遇见过很多其他人种,和他们进行交流的同时,他们也会放慢语速尝试着想让我们听懂,可是很多时候还是会因为语言不通从而导致误解和麻烦。尽管后来的考试结果通过了,白人小哥还是耐心的花了一些时间告诉我在驾驶过程中需要注意的地方,以及如何做的更好。在整个考试的过程中,感到的并不是来自考试的压力,而是感到一个人帮助别人真心。所以我认为几个月前的G2考试,通过的一部分原因就是因为考官是这样一位人,虽然事情已经过去很久,但还是希望在这里表达感谢。


像上边的白人考官只是其中的一个例子,在我们的生活中,还有很多像白人小哥这样的热心肠人,如在当志愿者时遇见的意大利籍白人,看我们是做志愿活动,主动请我们喝饮料,我们并未接受免费的饮料,但是他的这份心意在大家看来是真诚,善良的。还有我们的英语老师,在上课的过程中,尽量在让我们能够真正的学到知识,甚至为了让我们能够拥有更好的学习体验,在语言不通的情况下找带有中文字幕的版本(电影)等等,很多这种善良且为他人着想的事情就在这些人中发生着。


叔叔之前告诉过我们如何能够拥有美好生活的方法,其中一步就是把事情做好,而想要把事情做到完美需要实现两件事,一个是以完成这件事情的目的来做事情,而不是掺杂进自私的心理去做。另一个就是抱着站在对方角度考虑的思维方式去做。如果能够满足以上两点,那么生活中就不会有我们完不成的事情,也不会出现错误和失败。而上边提及的人,在处理问题上很多时候都运用了这样的方式。再加上他们都有着各自的信仰,不会因为自己的私利去伤害别人,做不好的事情。所以也就不难解释为什么世界上大部分优秀的人才都是这些人了。叔叔就在帮助我们走在这样一条步入成功的道路上,在叔叔的教育下,我们会更加理性的认识,学到更多的道理,人生的意义。这样走下去,我们注定会更加的幸福,美好。




Canada is a diverse country, where you can meet many people of different races, colors and colors. Among them, the most profound impact on me is the white people I have met.


Recalling the experience two months ago, on the day of the G2 road test, my invigilator was a very friendly Caucasian guy. Because my language is not very good, I can't talk to this guy very fluently, but he After clarifying my situation, I took the initiative to slow down my speaking speed, and at the same time talked in a way that I could understand. When I could fully understand what he said, I was surprised in my heart, because we have met many other races before, and while communicating with them, they will slow down their speech and try to make us understand, but In many cases, misunderstandings and troubles are still caused by language barriers. Although the result of the later test was passed, the white guy patiently took some time to tell me what needs to be paid attention to during driving and how to do better. Throughout the exam process, what I felt was not the pressure from the exam, but the sincerity of helping others. So I think part of the reason why I passed the G2 exam a few months ago is because the examiner is such a person. Although it has been a long time, I still want to express my gratitude here.


The white examiner above is just one example. In our lives, there are many warm-hearted people like the white brother, such as the Italian white man I met when I was a volunteer. Seeing that we are doing voluntary activities, please take the initiative to invite We drank drinks, and we didn't accept free drinks, but his kindness seemed sincere and kind to everyone. There is also our English teacher, in the process of class, try to let us really learn knowledge, even in order to let us have a better learning experience, find a version with Chinese subtitles when the language is not available ( movies) and so on, a lot of this kind and considerate stuff happens with these people.


Uncle told us before how to have a good life, one of the first steps is to do things well, and to do things perfectly, we need to achieve two things, one is to do things with the purpose of accomplishing this thing, not Do it with selfish psychology. The other is to do it with the way of thinking from the perspective of the other party. If the above two points can be met, then there will be nothing in life that we cannot accomplish, and there will be no mistakes and failures. The people mentioned above have often used this method in dealing with problems. In addition, they all have their own beliefs, and they will not hurt others or do bad things because of their own self-interest. So it is not difficult to explain why most of the outstanding talents in the world are these people. Uncle is helping us walk on such a road to success. Under the education of uncle, we will understand more rationally, learn more truths, and the meaning of life. Going on like this, we are destined to be happier and more beautiful.


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