在生活中经常有一些人，将自己的某些行为，尤其是那些过激行为，归结于自己曾经的经历。他们会说是那些痛苦的记忆导致了现在这些不好的举动。实则不然，这只是他们为自己的行为找的借口。“就是因为那些不好的经历才导致我这样做”，这话起来很合理，毕竟没有人能穿越时空改变过去。因此这些人可以光明正大的将问题归咎于自己的曾经，甚至还能博得他人的同情。如果他们想要改变自己的现状，跳出“曾经的经历对自己的限制”，如果他们愿意努力，这实际是可以的。虽然过去无法改变，但是"现在"以及"未来"是可以改变的。我们每个人都活在自己诠释的世界中，任何事情都取决于我们的认知，我们的思想决定了生命幸福与否。所以让我们从现在开始带着勇气、希望与坚强，不受“曾经”的制约，解决当下的问题，并向着自己目标与理想前进。
In life, there are often people who attribute some of their behaviors, especially those extreme behaviors, to their past experiences. They will say that those painful memories led to their current bad behavior. This is not the case, it is just an excuse for their behavior. "It was because of those bad experiences that led me to do this." This sounds reasonable. After all, no one can travel through time and change the past. Therefore, these people can openly blame their own past for problems, and even win the sympathy of others. If they want to change their current situation and break out of the "limitations of past experiences", this is actually possible if they are willing to work hard. Although the past cannot be changed, the "present" and "future" can be changed. Each of us lives in a world of our own interpretation, everything depends on our cognition, and our thoughts determine whether life is happy or not. So let us start from now on with courage, hope and strength, without being restricted by "the past", solve the current problems, and move forward towards our goals and ideals.
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