我们向别人显示自己，是因为希望通过展示自己获得他人认可和赞赏，从而让自己的自尊心和信心得到满足。当然努力获得他人认可是没有错的，但是一个人的价值不应完全取决于别人的看法，更主要的是自己是否付出了努力。
当我们太过于在意自己的形象和表现时，就会忽视自己真正的目的，这对我们的工作产生将会产生非常负面的影响。我们会把太多时间和精力放在炫耀自己上，而忽略了自己真正的目的”将任务完成“。所以为了避免这种情况，我必须时刻专注于任务的目的和意义，而不是去过度的显示自己。
以后我做事一定时时反问自己，“我现在做的事情真的在完成任务吗？”“我是为了显示自己还是真的是为了任务能更好地完成？”这样经常问自己就能确保自己的注意力和精力是否都放在了任务本身，而不是仅仅是自己。
We show ourselves to others because we hope to gain recognition and admiration from others by showing ourselves, so as to satisfy our self-esteem and confidence. Of course, there is nothing wrong with working hard to gain recognition from others, but the value of a person should not depend entirely on the opinions of others, but more importantly, whether he has put in the effort.
When we focus too much on our image and performance, we lose sight of our true purpose, which can have a very negative impact on our work. We spend too much time and energy on showing off, while ignoring our real purpose of "getting the job done". So in order to avoid this situation, I must always focus on the purpose and meaning of the task, instead of showing myself too much.
In the future, I will always ask myself when I do things, "Am I really completing the task?" Whether the focus and energy are on the task itself, not just yourself.
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