改过之法
最近重温“了凡四训”这部电影，十分感触。我们在叔叔这里，每隔一段时间都会温习之前学过的内容，而在这个过程中，真切的体会到了古人“温故而知新”的智慧。任何知识、内容，都会随着人年龄的提升、思维的不同而产生不一样的理解。而这次重温“了凡四训”这部电影，虽然目前只观看了第一集，但是感觉和以前比有了新的体会，其中较为深刻的，是改过之法。
电影中，故事于了凡先生的小儿子袁天赐乡试未中开始讲起，在遭遇落榜之后，小儿子天赐反映出抱怨考官不公，怨天尤人的心态。他对自己的失败感到极度失望和不满，没有意识到自身的不足和错误。然而，在了凡先生的启发和引导下，他开始意识到了改过之法的重要性。
了凡先生告诉天赐，抱怨和埋怨并不能解决问题，相反，只会让自己越来越迷失，只有心念至诚，一心向善，才会拥有美好的人生。后来天赐通过了凡先生的教导，总结出：“反思己之过错，不论人之长短，再也不怨天尤人”的话语。了凡先生微笑着告诉他：“人非圣贤，孰能无过，知过能改，善莫大焉，这是最最难得的啊！”。随后，就开始为讲述天赐讲解改过之法。
改过之法可以用三个词总结：羞耻，畏惧，勇猛。首先作为一个人，要明白是非，知道什么是对错，同时需要为自己做过的错事感到羞愧，如果知错犯错，或者不知而犯错，都是不可的。在拥有羞耻心的同时，还要产生畏惧心，古人讲暗室亏心、神目如电，举头三尺有神明，人在做、天在看。即使一个人独处暗室，也要警惕着不能够做坏事产生坏思想，因果报应真实不虚，即使有的事情人没有看到，没有做出回应，最终也会遭到来自天的报应，这是宇宙的法则，也是人必须认真对待的。同时拥有了羞耻、畏惧两种心态，最后还要生出勇猛心，奋勇之前，努力改过，知过能改，最终把所有的恶习从感觉到，意识到，到最终改到。
了凡先生讲述的改过之法，是人们需要用一生去实践奉行，而改过，也是一个不断进步，提高的过程。春秋时期的蘧伯玉，二十岁就能反省自身的错误而进行改正，而到了二十一岁，却发现改过并不彻底。到了二十二岁，回看二十一岁，犹在梦中。每过一年，蘧伯玉都会发现新的问题，从而改正。到了五十岁，反思四十九年的人生，都还是有问题的。古代之所以有如此多的古圣先贤，就是因为他们能够在生活的过程中不断的挖掘到那些不足，那些不好的心，从而不断的改正，提高。最终成就君子，圣贤。推荐所有人看看了凡四训，并不断的修正自己，提高自己，改变自己，造就更好的自己。
Correction method
Recently, I re-watched the movie "Four Lessons of Liao Fan", and I was very touched. When we are here with our uncle, we will review what we have learned before every once in a while, and in the process, we have truly experienced the wisdom of the ancients to "know the new by reviewing the past". Any knowledge and content will have different understandings as people age and think differently. And this time I revisited the movie "Four Lessons of Liao Fan". Although I have only watched the first episode so far, I feel that I have a new experience compared with before. The more profound one is the method of reform.
In the movie, the story begins with Mr. Liao Fan’s youngest son, Yuan Tianci, who failed the provincial examination. After failing the exam, the youngest son Tianci reflected his mentality of complaining about the unfairness of the examiner and others. He was extremely disappointed and dissatisfied with his failure, and did not realize his own shortcomings and mistakes. However, under the inspiration and guidance of Mr. Liao Fan, he began to realize the importance of the law of reform.
Mr. Liao Fan told Tianci that complaining and complaining will not solve the problem, on the contrary, it will only make oneself more and more lost. Only with a sincere heart and a good heart can one have a beautiful life. Later, Tianci passed Mr. Fan's teachings and concluded: "Reflect on your own mistakes, regardless of people's strengths, and never blame others." Mr. Liao Fan told him with a smile: "People are not sages and sages, no one can make mistakes, and if you know your mistakes, you can correct them. There is nothing good about it. This is the most rare thing!". Afterwards, he began to explain the method of rectification for Tianci.
The method of reformation can be summed up in three words: shame, fear, and courage. First of all, as a person, you must understand right and wrong, know what is right and wrong, and at the same time, you need to feel ashamed of the wrong things you have done. If you know your mistakes and make mistakes, or make mistakes without knowing it, it is not acceptable. While having a sense of shame, one must also have a sense of fear. The ancients said that the dark room is guilty, the eyes are like lightning, and there are gods three feet above the head, and the sky is watching when people are doing it. Even if a person is alone in a dark room, he must be vigilant not to do bad things and generate bad thoughts. Karma is true. Even if people do not see or respond to some things, they will eventually receive retribution from heaven. This is The laws of the universe are also things that people must take seriously. At the same time, you have two mentalities of shame and fear, and finally you have to develop a brave heart. Before you are brave, try to correct your past, and you can correct all your bad habits.
The method of rectification that Mr. Liao Fan described is that people need to spend their whole life practicing it, and rectification is also a process of continuous improvement and improvement. In the Spring and Autumn Period, Qu Boyu was able to reflect on his own mistakes and make corrections at the age of twenty, but at the age of twenty-one, he found that the corrections were not thorough. At the age of twenty-two, looking back at the age of twenty-one, I am still in a dream. Every year, Qu Boyu will find new problems and correct them. At the age of fifty, when I reflect on my forty-nine years of life, there are still problems. The reason why there are so many ancient sages and sages in ancient times is because they can constantly dig out those deficiencies and those bad thoughts in the process of life, so as to constantly correct and improve. In the end, he will become a gentleman and a sage. It is recommended that everyone read the four trainings of Fan, and constantly correct themselves, improve themselves, change themselves, and create a better self.
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