在成长过程中，抱怨成为了我最最基本的思维方式。从小到大，遇到任何不如自己心意的事情我就会怨天忧人。前一段时间，我在做事情的时候总会抱怨，只看到自己干的活，总觉得自己的活很多，那段时间每天心情都很不好，脑子里不断散发着各种负面的思想。干活的时候也没有效率，不情愿的做事情又导致浪费了更多的时间，继而又产生抱怨的情绪。但叔叔不断的提醒我们要多站在别人的角度看问题，每个人要做的事情都很多，不能总在算计自己的得失。经过叔叔不断的提醒，我也开始反思和调整自己做事时的心态。这段时间我发现自己慢慢能看到别人干的活了，每个人都有许多自己的事情要做。干活时也转变了一种思维方式：不再将干活视为是浪费自己的时间，而是真正认为干活是在提高自己的能力。在干活的时候我会想办法提高自己的效率，比如在刷碗的时候我会给自己定个时间点，例如十分钟完成所有洗碗开始清理灶台。而每一次在规定时间内完成工作都会使我十分快乐。渐渐的我发现自己干活的效率提高了很多，心情也很好。抱怨真的是一种极其不好的习惯和思维方式。而任何事情的结果都取决于我们自己的心态，当我们用正向的思维去看待事情与问题，我们也会得到正向的反馈。
Growing up, complaining became my most basic way of thinking. Ever since I was little, I would complain and worry about anything that didn't go as well as I wanted. Some time ago, I always complained when I was doing things. I only saw the work I was doing, and I always felt that I had a lot of work. During that time, I was in a bad mood every day, and all kinds of negative thoughts continued to circulate in my mind. There is also inefficiency when working, and doing things unwillingly leads to wasting more time, which in turn creates feelings of complaining. But my uncle kept reminding us to look at things from other people's perspective. Everyone has a lot to do, and we can't always calculate our own gains and losses. After my uncle’s constant reminders, I also began to reflect on and adjust my mentality when doing things. During this time, I found that I was slowly able to see the work done by others. Everyone has many things to do of their own. I have also changed my way of thinking when working: I no longer regard working as a waste of my time, but truly think that working is improving my abilities. When working, I will find ways to improve my efficiency. For example, when washing the dishes, I will set a time for myself. For example, I will finish all the dishes in ten minutes and start cleaning the stove. And every time I complete the work within the specified time, I will be very happy. Gradually, I found that my work efficiency has improved a lot, and I am in a good mood. Complaining is really a very bad habit and way of thinking. The outcome of anything depends on our own mentality. When we look at things and problems with positive thinking, we will also get positive feedback.