打篮球的快乐
这周六是我们2023年春天的第三次外出打篮球,与以往不同的是,这次球场上并没有了往常激烈的对抗,而是充斥着更多的笑语欢声。
刚到篮球场,看到很多小朋友和家长在那里打球,随着越来越多的初高中生进入篮球场,也导致人数过多,小朋友们也很难和这些高中生玩在一起。这时候博威哥提议,要不打全场篮球赛吧。但是随之而来的还有一个问题,就是那些小孩子肯定是不能和初高中的学生硬碰硬的,所以出于公平(因为在这个球场我们算比较厉害的那一队),两个最小的小孩加入了我们四个的队伍。虽然这对于叔叔这里来说是一件很正常的事情,但是在这里我还是不禁有些感慨。因为在以往的球场上,多数球技差或者年龄小的孩子在遇见大孩子打比赛的时候,总是会被踢出场外,即使勉强进队,也不免遭到冷脸对待。而在我们对的小朋友则没有这些顾虑,因为多数时间我们都会把进球的传给到他们手中,并挡拆防守的给他们制造机会,而小朋友也会尽自己所能的进球。在那当下,比赛并不是重点,而是小朋友们通过队友的协助,成功得分时大家的喜悦,才是最重要的。
同时在打篮球的过程中,还发现一个现象。很多人都知道现在的学生普遍素质低,在篮球场上尤其能够体现出来,动不动就爆粗口,犯规,假摔等。但是很多人在和我们这些叔叔这里的学生打球的过程中,逐渐的会减少上边的那些不良习惯。因为我们在打球的过程中,并不是为了把对方打败为目标,而是更多地看重团队的协作,互相帮助,同时让大家都感到快乐。在有人出现不良习惯的时候,也会善意的提醒一下,久之,再去球场的时候,遇见熟悉的人,打球的氛围逐渐的就很平和,很快乐了。
This Saturday is our third time to go out to play basketball in the spring of 2023. What is different from the past is that this time there is no usual fierce confrontation on the court, but more laughter and laughter.
When I first arrived at the basketball court, I saw many children and parents playing there. As more and more middle and high school students entered the basketball court, there were too many people, and it was difficult for the children to play with these high school students. At this time, Brother Bowei suggested that we should not play a full basketball game. But there is another problem that comes with it, that is, those children will definitely not be able to head-to-head with middle and high school students, so out of fairness (because we are considered the stronger team in this stadium), the two youngest children Join our team of four. Although this is a very normal thing for my uncle, I still can't help but feel a little bit emotional here. Because in the past on the court, most children with poor skills or young age will always be kicked out of the field when they meet older children playing games. Even if they barely enter the team, they will inevitably be treated coldly. But our children don’t have these worries, because most of the time we will pass the goal to them, and create opportunities for them with pick-and-roll defense, and the children will try their best to score goals. At that moment, the game was not the point, but the joy of everyone when the children successfully scored through the assistance of their teammates was the most important thing.
At the same time, in the process of playing basketball, I also discovered a phenomenon. Many people know that the current students are generally of low quality, which is especially reflected on the basketball court, where they swear, foul, and dive at every turn. But many people will gradually reduce those bad habits in the process of playing with students from our uncles. Because in the process of playing, our goal is not to defeat the opponent, but to pay more attention to teamwork, helping each other, and making everyone happy at the same time. When someone has a bad habit, I will also kindly remind them. After a long time, when I go to the stadium and meet familiar people, the atmosphere of playing gradually becomes peaceful and happy.
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