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寒山问拾得 Hanshan Ask Shide



Something my uncle said to me this week touched me very much. In the past, Hanshan asked Shide: There are people in the world who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, belittle me, belittle me, hate me, or lie to me. How should I deal with them? Shi De said: Just tolerate him, let him, let him go, avoid him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him, wait for a few years and see him.

When people live in the world, they will always encounter people or things that don't go well with them. If you worry about those people when you get old, it will be a waste of your time and you will be uncomfortable, so why bother getting angry. Just like Shide said, just tolerate him, let him, let him, avoid him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him, wait for a few more years and you can see him. If you don't argue with him, you won't lose anything. On the contrary, it's him who doesn't pay attention to improving his moral character. Sooner or later, he will offend others, and someone will argue with him and deal with him, so why bother getting angry with these people.

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