人们总说做任何事情,只要下定决心并坚持下去,便能成功。但问题来时人们还是会沉浸在自己曾经的遗憾中无法自拔,或放眼未来看到无数的未知与挑战。
我们要知道这两种思维方式都是无法让人进步的,只能让自己陷入对从前的懊悔与对未来的担忧的恶性循环中。对于前者我们要告诉自己:过去无法改变,但是现在与未来掌握在自己手中,从现在开始我要改变自己,积极的思考并改正问题。对于后者我们需要知道:生活就是会一直遇到不同的新问题,我们不能因此失去信心。因为事情就是这样运作的,总会有新的问题要解决。只要我们不放弃,向着自己的目标前进,就是在进步、在成长。
People always say that you can succeed in anything as long as you set your mind to it and persevere. But when problems arise, people will still be immersed in their past regrets and be unable to extricate themselves, or they will look to the future and see countless unknowns and challenges.
We must know that these two ways of thinking cannot make people progress, and can only make themselves fall into a vicious cycle of regret for the past and worry about the future. For the former, we have to tell ourselves: The past cannot be changed, but the present and future are in our own hands. From now on, I will change myself, think positively and correct problems. Regarding the latter, we need to know: life is about encountering different new problems all the time, and we cannot lose confidence because of this. Because that's how things work, there are always new problems to solve. As long as we don't give up and move toward our goals, we are progressing and growing.
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