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坦诚相待 Be Honest and Open

在当今的社会,几乎所有人都不愿意表达自己的真实感受,尤其是在与他人相处的时候。比如以前我在学校里,为了能和同学们“和平”的相处,我是无论如何都不会将自己内心的真实感受说出来的,因为害怕把自己的意见说出来就没有人跟自己的玩了。而这种现象在今天是非常普遍的,几乎所有人,尤其是现在的小孩子,从小在学校里就会养成这种虚伪的为人处事的习惯。人们也常常因为害怕与他人发生冲突或被孤立而选择沉默,来自社会和他人的压力也使得人们对表达个人观点产生了恐惧。在这种环境下,阿谀奉承和迎合他人成为了一种常见的交际方式。无论是在学校、工作场所还是社交圈子中,人们不敢表达自己真实的想法,只为了维持表面的和谐与友好。因为不能光明正大的表达自己的想法、向他人提出建议,那么只能在背地里想出一些“阴招”来偷偷报复他人。但是在叔叔这里,我们是绝对不被允许用这样的思维、习惯来为人处事的,因为这样做只会让自己的内心变得越来越狭窄、阴暗。叔叔教育我们要坦诚的待人,自己有什么想法就要坦诚的说出来。与其沉溺于阴暗的思维和背地里的报复,不如选择面对问题,用积极的心态解决它们。坦率表达自己的想法,不代表不尊重他人的意见,这样我们自己内心越来越光明的同时,大家也能一起进步。


In today's society, almost everyone is reluctant to express their true feelings, especially when they are with others. For example, when I was in school, in order to get along "peacefully" with my classmates, I would not express my true inner feelings anyway, because I was afraid that no one would play with me if I expressed my opinions. up. And this kind of phenomenon is very common today, almost everyone, especially today's children, will develop this hypocritical habit of dealing with people in school since childhood. People also often choose to remain silent for fear of conflict with others or of being isolated, and pressure from society and others can also make people fearful of expressing their opinions. In this environment, flattery and catering to others became a common way of communicating. Whether in school, the workplace, or in social circles, people are afraid to express their true thoughts in order to maintain a superficial harmony and friendliness. Because you can't express your thoughts openly and make suggestions to others, you can only come up with some "shady tricks" secretly to revenge others secretly. But here at Uncle, we are absolutely not allowed to use such thinking and habits to deal with others, because doing so will only make our hearts narrower and darker. Uncle taught us to be honest with others, and to speak out what we think. Instead of wallowing in dark thinking and vengeance behind the scenes, choose to face problems and resolve them with a positive mindset. Expressing one's own thoughts frankly does not mean disrespecting others' opinions, so that while our own hearts are getting brighter and brighter, everyone can make progress together.

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