最近我开始帮助叔叔处理一些工作上的事情。在这个过程中也出现了一些问题和错误，比如有时我没有完全理解任务的本质，因此没有采取正确的方法来解决问题；有时因为我没有仔细检查最终的内容而导致遗漏了一些重要信息；还有时是因为一些自己心理上的问题而导致事情变得很麻烦......这些错误让我很沮丧，但同时我也学到了很多。
首先就是无论任何时候都要诚实。有时我没有很好的完成工作，又因为害怕而不敢将实情告诉叔叔，就将自己的工作情况美化或者不和盘托出，可这其实并不会给我带来什么好处，相反，还会损失自己的信誉。虽然有时我们这样做并不是为了撒谎，甚至我们可能是出于好意，只是不想让对方失望。但这样事情积累多了，就会给别人造成不好的印象。我明白了即便有很大的压力，我也一定要承认自己的错误并寻求解决问题的最佳方式，而不是简单地试图掩盖或美化问题。这样做不仅可以帮助我们避免更严重的后果，还可以建立自己的信誉。
其次，我也注意到了情绪管理和做事时的心态的重要性。由于我没有真正的将这些工作当作自己的事情，觉得只是在帮叔叔做事，因此产生了抱怨的心理。这些心理让我无法专心工作，甚至陷入到了负面的情绪中。叔叔察觉到了我的负面情绪并给我讲了很多道理，提醒了我在做这些工作的同时，也是在为自己积累工作经验。只有当我们真正把工作当成自己的分内之事时，我们才会积极的思考高效的解决方案，从而更好的完成工作。
Recently I started to help uncle with some work matters. There are also some problems and mistakes in this process, such as sometimes I didn't fully understand the essence of the task, so I didn't take the correct method to solve the problem; sometimes I missed some important information because I didn't check the final content carefully; Sometimes it's because of my own psychological problems that make things difficult...The mistakes made me very frustrated, but at the same time I learned a lot.
The first is to be honest at all times. Sometimes I didn’t finish my work well, and because I was too afraid to tell uncle the truth, I would beautify my work situation or tell the truth, but this would not bring me any benefits, on the contrary, I would lose myself credibility. Although sometimes we don't do this to lie, we may even have good intentions and just don't want to disappoint the other party. But if things like this accumulate too much, it will create a bad impression on others. I've learned that even when there's a lot of pressure, I have to admit my mistakes and find the best way to solve the problem, rather than simply trying to cover up or glorify the problem. Doing so not only helps us avoid more serious consequences, but also builds our own credibility.
Secondly, I also noticed the importance of emotional management and mentality when doing things. Because I didn't really take these jobs as my own, I felt that I was just doing things for uncle, so I felt complaining. These mentalities made me unable to concentrate on work, and even fell into negative emotions. Uncle noticed my negative emotions and explained a lot of truths to me, reminding me that while doing these jobs, I was also accumulating work experience for myself. Only when we really regard the work as our own, can we actively think about efficient solutions, so as to complete the work better.
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