最近我们读到了一些关于古时候人们改过和反省自我的故事和道理，特别是在虚心反思自己的错误、换位思考上。其实就和叔叔给我们讲过的道理一样，在做任何事的时候一定不能抱着别人哪儿都不对、自己什么都对这样的心态。很多时候这些心态会直接导致事情做不好，而又不容易发现自己的问题所在。往往抱着谦虚的心态反思自己、有任何问题先找自己的错的时候，就能去发现很多自己没有做好、需要进步的地方。在纠正这些错误的时候能够把当下的事情处理好，同时又避免了不正确心态的进一步增长。就像那篇文章里讲的一样，如果凡事都抱着自己是对的这样的心态，其实就阻碍了发现自己的问题、提高自己的机会。只有始终抱着谦虚、常反思自己的心态，才能去更好的发现和改正自己的问题、去进步。所以一定要养成时常反思自己的心态，尽力改掉经常找别人问题的习惯。
Reflect on yourself
Recently we have read some stories and truths about people in ancient times correcting themselves and reflecting on themselves, especially on humbly reflecting on their own mistakes and thinking from others' perspective. In fact, it is the same as what my uncle told us. When doing anything, you must not have the mentality that others are wrong in everything and you are right in everything. Many times these mentalities will directly lead to things not being done well, and it is not easy to find out where your problems lie. Often when you reflect on yourself with a humble attitude and look for your own faults if you have any problems, you can discover many areas where you have not done well and need to improve. When correcting these mistakes, we can handle the current affairs well and avoid the further growth of incorrect mentality. Just like what was mentioned in that article, if you have the mentality that you are right in everything, it will actually hinder your opportunities to discover your own problems and improve yourself. Only by always holding a humble and reflective attitude can we better discover and correct our own problems and make progress. Therefore, we must develop a mentality of always reflecting on ourselves, and try our best to get rid of the habit of often looking for problems in others.
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