做事的目的Purpose of doing things

做事的目的

无论是在工作还是学习中，都会出现一种情况：有的人学习无压力，天天向上、工作上井井有条，诸事顺利。而有的人却学习压力山大，成绩垫底、工作上频繁出错，磕磕绊绊。我们当然每个人都希望成为前者，但现实中，后者却占大多数。然而不好的结果，不良的习惯如果不加以改正，很可能伴随人一辈子，从而换来终生的不幸，一生的不快乐。

叔叔告诉我们，真正能够改正的方法，就是转变思维方式，明白做事的目的。叔叔还告诉我们做事和学习一样，需要多思考，并怀着谦虚的心态去对待人事物，这样事情才能够做好。而自己在做事的过程中，仔细回忆，几乎很少有按照叔叔说的这些准则去做。

在做事的过程中，首先自己并不会过多的思考如何把事情做好，而是盲目的在自认为对的道路上走一步看一步，过程中即使别人也在做同样的事情，但由于心中认为自己的想法是正确的，从而忽略别人更加正确的做法。并且由于自我的心态，导致在做事的过程中往往就遗忘了干事的目的，没有明确的目标，也不采纳他人的想法，一意孤行的去做事，再加上本就不爱思考，选择的方法往往既笨且慢，所以就会导致最终的成果难达优良，总是会比别人差一些。

就像开头说的，不良的习惯如果不加以改正，很可能伴随人一辈子，从而换来终生的不幸，一生的不快乐。所以怀揣着这样心态的自己一定要在往后的学习做事中纠正这种不正确心态，抱着谦虚的心态，摆正做事的目的，多思考，这样才能够真正的把事情做好。只要我们能够按照叔叔教给我们的方法去做事，去改变，那么就会迎来真正的光明与快乐。

purpose of doing things

No matter in work or study, there will be a situation: some people study without pressure, make progress every day, work in an orderly manner, and everything goes well. But some people have a lot of pressure to study, their grades are at the bottom, they make frequent mistakes at work, and they stumble. Of course each of us would like to be the former, but in reality, the latter predominates. However, if bad results and bad habits are not corrected, they are likely to accompany people for a lifetime, and in exchange for life-long misfortune and unhappiness.

Uncle told us that the real way to correct is to change the way of thinking and understand the purpose of doing things. Uncle also told us that doing things is the same as studying, we need to think more, and treat people and things with a humble attitude, so that things can be done well. And in the process of doing things, I carefully recalled that I seldom followed the guidelines my uncle said.

In the process of doing things, first of all, I don't think too much about how to do things well, but blindly take one step at a time on the road I think is right. Even if others are doing the same thing in the process, but because of I think my own thoughts are correct, so I ignore the more correct actions of others. And because of my own mentality, in the process of doing things, I often forget the purpose of doing things. I don’t have a clear goal, and I don’t accept other people’s ideas. It is stupid and slow, so the final result will be difficult to achieve excellence, and it will always be worse than others.

As I said at the beginning, if bad habits are not corrected, they are likely to stay with you for a lifetime, and in exchange for lifelong misfortune and unhappiness. Therefore, with such a mentality, I must correct this incorrect mentality in the future when I study and do things. With a humble attitude, set the purpose of doing things, and think more, so that I can really do things well. As long as we can do things and change according to the method taught by our uncle, then we will usher in real light and happiness.