从小，我们总会听到各种道理，比如：要做个好孩子，要懂得感恩，要孝顺，要知足……而且伴随着这些道理，父母还总会给我们讲一些相关的故事来告诉我们为什么要这样做。但是等到孩子们长大了，他们却会对这些道理熟视无睹，甚至产生质疑。即便有的孩子还想按照父母说的去做，做个好孩子，可当他们走入社会后，接触到了各种各样的奇谈怪论，这些谬论就会让孩子的思想变得混乱，不知道到底什么才是对的，也不知道要遵守哪些道理。
当我们在改正自己的问题、让自己变成一个好人的时候，我们总是要经过长时间的自我斗争和对道理的思考，来抑制那种不正确的思想。而且这个过程会反复出现，那些错误思维还很有可能占了上风，让我们失去理智。但仔细想想，我们生而为人，不就是应该做个好孩子，做个好人吗？这样做并没有什么道理，这些就是作为一个人理所应当的。作为人类，我们希望与他人建立良好的关系，我们愿意传递爱心与善意，因为这些都源自于我们内心中善的一面。
如果我们能将这种心态变成自己的思维习惯，遇到事情时我们自然而然就会按照正确的道理来行事。我们不再纠结于利益得失，我们的言行举止自然地展现出善良和关怀，在给周围的人带来温暖和希望的同时，我们自己的内心也会充满平静和快乐。
Since childhood, we have always heard various truths, such as: To be a good child, you must know how to be grateful, be filial, and be content... And along with these principles, parents will always tell us some related stories to tell us Why do you want to do this. But when children grow up, they will turn a blind eye to these principles and even question them. Even if some children still want to do what their parents say and be a good child, when they enter the society, they come into contact with all kinds of strange theories, and these fallacies will confuse the children's thinking. I don't know what is right, and I don't know what principles to follow.
When we correct our problems and make ourselves a good person, we always have to go through a long period of self-struggle and thinking about the truth to suppress that incorrect thought. And this process will recur, and those wrong thinkings are likely to gain the upper hand and make us lose our minds. But think about it carefully, we are born as human beings, shouldn't we be a good boy and a good person? There is no reason to do so, these are what a human being should take for granted. As human beings, we want to establish good relationships with others, and we are willing to spread love and kindness, because these come from the good side in our hearts.
If we can turn this mentality into our own thinking habits, we will naturally act in accordance with the right principles when encountering things. We are no longer obsessed with gains and losses, and our words and deeds naturally show kindness and care. While bringing warmth and hope to those around us, our own hearts will also be filled with peace and happiness.
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