在这周的一次经历中，我深刻体会到了：你如何对待世界世界就会如何对待你，我们自身的心态会在很大程度上影响周围的环境。
我们的小猫咪每天都享受着美味的猫罐头。这周他们最喜欢罐头又快没有了，所以我们打算前往宠物店购买，但通常我们都会先打电话询问库存情况。在给宠物店打电话时，接线员是一位女士。起初，她说的一个词我没有听懂，她开始显得不耐烦，她叹了口气让我稍等片刻，然后便没了声音。我等待了六、七分钟，但她没有回来。显然她并不想帮我查看库存，所以我就挂了电话。之后我又给其他宠物店打了电话，可惜他们都没货了，所以只剩下那个店铺还没有结果。可我并不想再给他们打电话了，因为那位女士的态度的确很不好，我觉得再打电话也只会得到同样的结果……但过了一会，我突然想到，我做这件事情目的是什么？我的目的是为了解决问题，是为了给猫咪们买罐头，而不是为了和对方生气，我怎能因为自己的情绪而让事情不了了之呢？而且那家店也许就是唯一还有货的地方。同时我又想起了几天前，我刚在笔记本上写下了“要保持感恩”来提醒自己。于是，我再次给那家宠物店打了电话并向他们解释情况，我告诉对方：“我刚刚给你们打了电话询问某种猫罐头的库存，但是我等了很久都没有得到回答，所以我挂断了电话。我知道你们很忙，但如果有人能抽出一点时间来帮我查看一下，我会非常感谢。“我听出这次接电话的应该还是之前的那位女士，但她的态度却完全改变了。她首先向我道了歉，然后请我稍等两分钟，她会去查看。果然，她很快就回来了。她告诉我他们也售空了，并再次表达了她的歉意。
尽管他们也没有货了，但至少我得到了明确的答案，而且双方都以平和的心态结束了对话。这次经历让我深刻地体会到了一个道理：你如何看待世界，世界就会如何对待你。当我改变了自己的态度时，对方的态度也就改变了。如果我一开始就心怀不满或生气的和她争吵，结果肯定是不会好的。也许她最终还是会道歉，但我们内心的感受是完全不同的。当我们学会包容，改变自己的态度，并以积极、善良和感恩的心态来面对周围的人和物时，对方一定是能感受到的，这样不仅解决了问题，还能建立良好的关系。
In an experience this week, I deeply realized: how you treat the world will treat you, and our own mentality will greatly affect the surrounding environment.
Our little cats enjoy delicious canned cat food every day. Their favorite cans are running out this week, so we're going to head to the pet store to get them, but usually we call first to check on stock. When calling the pet store, the operator was a woman. At first, I didn't understand a word she said, she started to look impatient, she sighed and told me to wait a moment, then she fell silent. I waited for six or seven minutes, but she didn't come back. Apparently she didn't want to check inventory for me, so I just hung up. After that I called other pet stores, but unfortunately they were out of stock, so only that one store still has no results. But I didn't want to call them again, because the lady's attitude was really bad, and I thought I would only get the same result if I called again...but after a while, it suddenly occurred to me that I would do this What is the purpose of the matter? My purpose is to solve the problem, to buy cans for the cats, not to get angry with each other, how can I let things go away because of my emotions? And that store might be the only place that still has it. At the same time, I remembered that a few days ago, I just wrote "Be grateful" in my notebook to remind myself. So, I called the pet store again and explained the situation to them, and I told them, "I just called you to ask about some kind of canned cat food in stock, but I waited a long time for no answer, so I Hanging up. I know you're busy, but I'd really appreciate it if someone took a moment to check it out for me." I could tell it was the same lady who answered the call this time, but her attitude But completely changed. She first apologized and asked me to wait two minutes while she checked. Sure enough, she came back soon. She told me they were also sold out and offered her apologies again.
Although they were also out of stock, at least I got a clear answer and both parties ended the conversation on a peaceful note. This experience made me deeply understand a truth: how you see the world, the world will treat you. When I change my attitude, the other person's attitude also changes. If I had started arguing with her disgruntled or angry, it would have ended badly. Maybe she'll apologize eventually, but what we feel inside is totally different. When we learn to be tolerant, change our attitude, and face people and things around us with a positive, kind and grateful attitude, the other party must be able to feel it. This will not only solve the problem, but also establish a good relationship.
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