什么是真正的善良

抱怨是一个非常非常不好的习惯，它会让你总将问题归结于他人而不能意识到自己的错误。要想改掉这个问题，就必须学会自我反省。自我反省可以让你知道自己的错在哪里并且能让你产生想要改正的心，有了想改的心那问题基本就已经解决一半了，剩下的就是平时多提醒多注意自己的思想。

Complaining is a very, very bad habit that keeps you blaming others for your problems without realizing your own mistakes. To get rid of this problem, you must learn to self-reflect. Self-reflection can let you know where your mistakes are and can make you want to correct them. If you have a desire to correct, the problem has basically been solved. The rest is to remind and pay more attention to your thoughts.