什么是真正的善良

抱怨是一个非常非常不好的习惯，它会让你总将问题归结于他人而不能意识到自己的错误。要想改掉这个问题，就必须学会自我反省。自我反省可以让你知道自己的错在哪里并且能让你产生想要改正的心，有了想改的心那问题基本就已经解决一半了，剩下的就是平时多提醒多注意自己的思想。

Complaining is a very, very bad habit that keeps you blaming others for your problems without realizing your own mistakes. To get rid of this problem, you must learn to self-reflect. Self-reflection can let you know where your mistakes are and can make you want to correct them. If you have a desire to correct, the problem has basically been solved. The rest is to remind and pay more attention to your thoughts.

在来叔叔这之前我有时也会喂小动物，但来叔叔这儿之后我才明白虽然行为都一样但我之前却不是真正的善良，因为我的出发点是为私的。过去我在喂小动物的时候，表面上表现的是可怜它们，但实际心里想的是你看我多善良我会给流浪动物为食，我将喂动物当成一种像别人显示的事情，而不是真的出自内心的觉得小动物很可怜想要帮助它们。这是多么卑鄙自私的想法啊！真正的善良应该是发自内心的，没有任何目的的为对方好。

虽然和之前比我现在进步了很多，但还没有做到完全的善良，我会继续努力让自己变得更好。

Before I came to uncle's place, I sometimes fed small animals, but after coming to uncle's place, I realized that although my behavior was the same, I was not really kind before, because my starting point was selfish. When I was feeding small animals in the past, I showed pity for them on the surface, but what I actually thought in my heart was how kind I am, I will feed stray animals, and I will feed animals as something that others show, and It's not really from the bottom of my heart that I feel sorry for the little animals and want to help them. What a despicable and selfish thought! True kindness should come from the heart, without any purpose for the good of the other party.

Although I have improved a lot from before, but I have not yet achieved complete kindness. I will continue to work hard to make myself better.