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人生路 Life Journey

过去,学历对于我就意味着一切,我认为只要有了理想的文凭,一切都会顺利。现在,我发现,学历并不是一切,最多只是一块敲门砖。父母给自己未来选择的在叔叔这儿的工作很可能与自己所学的专业联系很少。一切都要从新来过,自己必须尊敬前辈,因为她们知道事情该怎么做,拥有把事做好的能力。自己必须学会聆听。傲慢的品质,并不会帮助把事做成,却会阻碍学习与進步。有的时候,我会后悔没有学一个能帮叔叔忙的专业,但比这更重要的是应该如何摆放自己的心。叔叔曾经给我们讲过马云招聘的一个故事:经过层层筛选,面试者到了最后一轮的考核。面试官提了一个问题“请在两个选项之间做出选择。第一个选项是,工作的所有回报以薪酬形式计算。第二个选项是,除薪酬外,持有一部分公司股票。”这位面试者选了第一个选项,回报全部是薪酬形式。于是马云对面试者说,‘很遗憾,你没有通过考核。‘”作为老板,马云不会招收一个只想着自己利益的员工,因为这意味着,如果公司出现什么困难,员工不会同舟共济。例子中的人是一个自私的人,在公司的顺利发展中得到了自己的利益,而当公司遇到困难时,却不会坚守应对。叔叔常常告诉我们,把事情做坏并不可怕,但这表明做事时的心态出现了问题。作为员工,遇事只考虑自己的利益,不去想这样做会给公司带来什么问题时,老板不能把这样的人放在一个重要的位置上。自己的心,决定了自己被摆放的位置,也决定了自己人生的未来。一个精致的利己主义者,就算生活过的再好,思想境界也只是一个凡人。因为不会想到别人,不会想到“别人事情很多,我得去帮一把”。生活中没有快乐,感受不到大家帮助别人后其乐融融的状态。 真正的快乐是建立在帮助别人之上。虽然可能自己苦一点、累一点,但大家有说有笑的快乐是无法比拟的。叔叔善心的教育我“能不能改变,做到不那么挑剔。”左一点不行,右一点也不行,叔叔从来没有这么累过。当虎哥教育我后,使我有了一点感恩的心,我发现叔叔真的精神高度紧张,想吃什么东西,赶紧看过来“你们也快吃。”当姐姐忙着给叔叔挑菜,好让叔叔有菜吃的时候,叔叔赶紧看过来“不用管叔叔,你们快去吃饭。”我发现其他孩子都没什么,她们都能想到叔叔,想到别人。我真的很惭愧。但同时又觉得自己很幸运,父母把我送到叔叔这儿接受教育,使我填补了很多原来教育上的缺失。有时想自己选一条未来的人生路,但想一想,在损人利己、保护自己利益为前提下,自己会给别人带来什么,除了灾难还是灾难。而宇宙的法则,会让这些灾难最终都回到自己身上。这些道理,除了叔叔,不会再有其他人告诉我。在小说《飘》中,主人公明白,她4岁的女儿“美丽∙巴特勒”已经被宠坏了。 要不是美丽这么可爱,她早就吃不开了。我已经快20岁了,已经吃不开了。我马上就要独立面对社会了,前路未卜。自己真的很幸运,能遇到叔叔,能遇到叔叔的学生。不会再有人像这样教育我了。记得过去学校的老师,谷口婆心的教育几次学生,“我也不生气了,不听算了,你的未来和我没什么关系。”想想也觉得老师不容易。但没有人会像叔叔这样,一教就是三年,而且是教到最后。“明明,叔叔再告诉你一个真理,当你无法摆脱一个环境时,你能做的只有适应环境。”如果不是叔叔告诉了我这句话,我不会去想这些问题。真的很感谢叔叔,也感谢我的父母,给我选择了一条正确的未来人生路。


In the past, academic qualifications meant everything to me. I thought that as long as I had an ideal diploma, everything would go well. Now, I find that education is not everything, at most it is just a stepping stone. The job my parents chose for uncle in the future is likely to have little connection with my major. Everything has to start over, and I must respect my predecessors, because they know how to do things and have the ability to do things well. You must learn to listen to yourself. The quality of arrogance does not help to get things done, but it hinders learning and progress. Sometimes, I will regret not learning a major that can help uncle, but more important than this is how to place my heart. Uncle once told us a story about Jack Ma's recruitment: After layers of screening, the interviewers reached the final round of assessment. The interviewer asked a question "Please choose between two options. The first option is that all rewards of the job are calculated in the form of salary. The second option is to own a part of the company's stock in addition to salary." The interviewer chose the first option, and the rewards are all in the form of salary. So Ma Yun said to the interviewer, 'Unfortunately, you failed the assessment. '” As a boss, Jack Ma would not recruit an employee who only thinks of his own interests, because it means that if the company encounters any difficulties, the employees will not help each other. The person in the example is a selfish person, and in the smooth development of the company I have obtained my own benefits, but when the company encounters difficulties, it will not stick to it. Uncle often told us that it is not terrible to do things badly, but it shows that there is a problem with the mentality when doing things. When thinking about your own interests and not thinking about what problems it will bring to the company, the boss can't put such a person in an important position. Your own heart determines where you are placed, and also determines your own The future of life. An exquisite egoist, no matter how good his life is, his state of mind is just a mortal. Because he will not think of others, and he will not think of "others have a lot of things, I have to help them". There is no Happiness, I can’t feel the state of happiness after everyone helps others. The real happiness is based on helping others. Although it may be a little bit harder and tired, the happiness of everyone talking and laughing is incomparable. Uncle’s kind education Can I "change and be less critical. "I can't do anything on the left, and I can't do anything on the right. Uncle has never been so tired. After Brother Hu taught me, I felt a little grateful. I found that my uncle was really nervous and wanted to eat something. Come here quickly. "Eat quickly, too. "When my sister was busy picking out vegetables for uncle so that he could have something to eat, uncle hurried over and said, "Don't worry about uncle, go and eat quickly. "I found that the other children were fine. They all thought of their uncle and others. I was really ashamed. But at the same time, I felt very lucky. My parents sent me to uncle for education, which made me fill a lot of gaps in education. Missing. Sometimes I want to choose a future life path for myself, but think about what I will bring to others under the premise of harming others and protecting my own interests. Except for disasters or disasters. The laws of the universe will make these disasters eventually It all comes back to myself. No one will tell me these truths except uncle. In the novel "Gone with the Wind", the protagonist understands that her 4-year-old daughter "Beautiful Butler" has been spoiled. If it weren't for Meimei is so cute, she can’t eat anymore. I’m almost 20 years old and I can’t eat anymore. I’m about to face the society independently, and the future is uncertain. I’m really lucky, I can meet uncle, I can meet uncle No one will educate me like this again. I remember the teacher at the school in the past, Taniguchi taught the students several times, "I am not angry anymore, forget it if you don't listen, your future has nothing to do with me. "Thinking about it, I think it's not easy to be a teacher. But no one is like Uncle, who teaches for three years and teaches until the end." Obviously, Uncle will tell you another truth. When you can't get rid of an environment, you can do it. The only thing you can do is adapt to the environment. "If uncle hadn't told me this sentence, I wouldn't have thought about these issues. I am really grateful to uncle and my parents for choosing a correct path for my future life.

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