再当今的社会，无论是生活中的琐事，还是工作上的得失，人们总是习惯性地计算、权衡着。但这种斤斤计较思维方式与行为只会让我们陷入无尽的烦恼和疲惫。
俗话说“人各有命”，这并非是对命运的消极接受，而是对人生的深刻理解。每个人都有自己独特的人生轨迹和命运安排。我们无法预知未来，也无法掌控他人。别人怎么做与我们无关，我们唯一能做的就是做好自己，而不是眼睛总看着别人。当然这不是让我们忽略别人的感受，而是放平心态，尽量学习他人的优点，勉励自己做的更好。
这些道理虽然简单，但却需要我们时常提醒自己，最后形成这样的思维方式。
In today's society, whether it is trivial matters in life or gains and losses at work, people always calculate and weigh them habitually. But this kind of fussy thinking and behavior will only make us fall into endless trouble and exhaustion.
As the saying goes, "Everyone has his own destiny." This is not a passive acceptance of fate, but a profound understanding of life. Everyone has his own unique life trajectory and destiny. We cannot predict the future and we cannot control others. It has nothing to do with us what others do. The only thing we can do is to be ourselves and not always look at others. Of course, this does not mean that we should ignore the feelings of others, but that we should keep a calm mind, try to learn from the strengths of others, and encourage ourselves to do better.
Although these principles are simple, we need to remind ourselves from time to time, and finally form this way of thinking.
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