This week, Rain graduated. With the last group photo and the last farewell, Rain left his uncle satisfactorily and started his new university life.
January 3, 2018 was the first day Rain came to his uncle. Maybe Rain, when he first arrived, didn't know what kind of changes and meanings would be given to his life in the next four years and eight months. Uncle's education to us has changed our bad way of thinking and bad habits, improved our discernment and self-control, learned to reflect, respect, and filial piety, and become a kind person, an excellent person, and a happy person. Many of these people don't realize it, or maybe some choose to forget it over time, but these good qualities have taken root in Rain today and almost every other uncle's student. Many people send their children to their uncles, perhaps for a small reason that is not worth mentioning, but everyone knows how much knowledge a child has learned from his uncle that other children cannot touch, and how much bad thinking has been changed.
Rain is the best example of us. The former Rain, in my image, before coming to my uncle (because we knew each other before), Rain and I hardly ever said a word. Of course, many details cannot be exhausted. He is a very cold person and dare not approach him. As he came to his uncle, Rain gradually became cheerful and considerate, and became one of the few close friends.
Uncle told us a long time ago that we should cherish the time everyone spends together, because in uncle here, everyone is in a mental environment, in a state, they can chat with each other, very happy, but with other peers. The way of thinking is very different, and it is difficult to find true close friends in other places. Therefore, everyone felt a little bit reluctant to leave Rain.
But in any case, now Rain has graduated, like a small boat that has stayed in a safe haven for a long time, upgraded the firmware, improved the quality, and set sail from a new beginning to the vast ocean. I hope Rain can keep in mind what he has learned, carry the time he spent here with his uncle, and be happy and happy forever.
When I was young, I always felt that whoever treated me well or gave me benefits was a good person. If your peers have something better than you, you will be clamoring for one yourself. Growing up with such a way of thinking, I feel ashamed and regret now thinking about it. Especially when getting along with others, I always have various complex psychology, showing, jealousy, and fighting.
uncle recently told us a truth. To see people depends on people's hearts. To change a person is to change the heart of this person. A person’s starting point for doing things is the most important. No matter how well things are done, the psychological purpose is not pure, and it is to get some benefits for oneself. Then it becomes a thing that is gorgeous on the surface, but there is a dark side behind it. It may be praised by a lot of people who are not well-connected, but when you really get to know it, it will be hated by people who are discriminating. Looking back on many things I have done, in fact, most of them have such problems. To do something with a purpose, or to praise, or to get something, subjectively, maybe I rarely think so, but after finishing this thing, look back. When I thought about it, I found that there would really be an improper mentality.
We are fortunate because our uncle taught us this and gave us the opportunity to reflect on our own behavior and try to change it and not be what it used to be. At the same time, we have a method of identifying people: look at the purpose of people doing things. If the purpose is to do things well, or for the sake of others, not for their own interests, then such a person definitely you can reassure.